“I’m a girl in my early twenties, I have this guy that loves me so much but unfortunately he’s married. I registered my fears about us to him and he always gets so mad, saying I don’t trust him enough to take care of me emotionally and otherwise.
Along the line,I fell in love with him…I’m 3months pregnant with his baby, he’s sworn to come do the traditional rites once I give him a go ahead, though he met my family during xmas they all like him but don’t know his status! He’s most concerned about my NYSC since its just months away.
I just want to stay away from home till my baby is delivered cause I love him enough to nurse his child but… Aunty I’m just confused about my mum, there’s a friend of mine I could talk with to stand in as the baby daddy for the time being so my parents could rest and ease off, while I’m away.
Advice me oh please…..Miss NYSC
Editors note: This are are real people, flesh and blood, everyday people like you and i who needs support and advice on confusing and disturbing situation they have found themselves, please lets be supportive when giving advice.
we might agree or disagree, with actions to decisions taken by individuals. please try , its not for us to be judgemental. for all we know, they are already feeling down hence they are asking for advice from others.
be sensitive and understanding, we all are vulnerable, one way or the other. we all have found ourselves at crossroad at one time or the other.
please advice to help and support this lady to make the best decision.