Am a lady of 22years of age and with one baby. I have known the father of my child for 7years now but we have not talk about marriage yet because he is paying my fees in the nursing school.
For seven years now he has been cheating massively on me of which he doesn’t show signs of regret if I catch him cheating.The least opportunity any lady gives him, no matter the lady’s status, married or single, he would have sex with her.
He is seeing me through my education and there are no family members to support me and therefore makes me adjust to his situation.
Am really going through a lot and I now want to end it all and let it go.
Am working now and can see myself through my education but the problem is, if I leave with the child he is not going to take responsibilities and I cannot leave her behind, and can’t add hers to mine since my work is not that much good to take two responsibilities. What do I do?
To be cheated on, male or female is not a good experience.
Some school of thought put cheating down to be part of emotional abuse, especially when it’s a repeated cycle. It leaves unseen scars in your heart, the scars that are forever bleeding. There need for women and men to understand the effects of repeated cheating.
Some men tend to think its no big deal, so long they don’t bring the woman / women home. while others think the woman at home should count herself as the lucky one hence she’s the missus.
A question to all men, how would you feel if your wife sleeps with anything in boxers..?
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