I need your advice, kindly treat as anonymous
I got married 30th December,2016
I started talking to my husband on the 1st of January 2016, it’s a distance relationship but we spoke all the time, we had our fights and settled.
He’s been married twice now with a daughter from his first marriage. Reason for the first breakup was that she found love in a lady and the second breakup was also a distant relationship so I am his third relationship
I also want a breakup because he’s extremely jealous and always doubting me,he things I’m sleeping around with all men and all women,I try to make him realize that I’m not cheating and he knows that but doesn’t want me around anyone not even my family
At several occasions he had accused me of sleeping with my own father which I found very insulting. I tried to manage situations without family involvement
Recently, he has been taking advice from his female cousin, they have been discussing how they will deal with me, dealing with me by not sending my monthly allowance and also keeping me in Nigeria and not planning to file papers for me to move in with him in Austria
He doesn’t want me to come live with him because he has fears that I will leave or abandon him in Austria, why he has such thoughts in his heart, I really don’t know.
I’m confused now because he is talking to his cousin on how to run his marriage.
I’m emotionally derailed
I need help
Maybe his relationships failed because of his insecurities
He’s tormenting me emotionally.
Should I break up with him because distance isn’t helping issues too…..?
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